St Kilda embraces mental health
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St Kilda embraces mental health
Have to say, I like the effort he is putting into improving the guys as people....applaud this move.
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/afl/more-ne ... 6435179155
Dempster, 28, admitted the side hadn't always been so willing to share.
"In the past we probably haven't been that good at being a whole group and everyone being confident to talk as a group," he said.
"It's come to a point where seniority doesn't matter any more. You need the younger blokes to be able to come out and tell you how they're feeling for the club to grow."
At last week's session, the players agreed that approaching a teammate could be awkward.
Captain Nick Riewoldt pondered the results-driven nature of the AFL - how if you can't fix something, you think you can't really help.
Nick Dal Santo said with such a strong team focus, individuals could sometimes be overlooked.
Dempster said the players were learning.
"It's a great program because blokes don't talk about it, you don't talk about your feelings, about mental health and stuff like that," he said.
"We do spend a lot of time together, so to be able to first notice the changes in someone and learn the skills how to handle that is pretty beneficial.
"You can see subtle signs if you look hard enough and do show that genuine care.
"I suppose that's what the program's about, being able to see those subtle changes and having the confidence to be able to go up to them and genuinely ask, 'How you feeling? How you going?', and help them out."
Dempster said it took courage.
"Sometimes it can be a bit confronting ... because you know that it's going to be hard for someone to come up to you, you don't want to do it to someone else and make them feel uncomfortable," he said.
"Hopefully this program enables us to individually be able to come out and say, 'Maybe I do have a problem', and also be able to see that someone else is struggling and be able to help them out."
The players talk about the effect of being dropped from the senior team.
Dempster spoke from experience when he said it was a lonely place.
"You feel like you've been left behind a little bit. So to be able to go up to a player post being dropped and see how they're going can make a massive difference," he said.
"I've been dropped plenty of times. For a player to come up to me and ask how I'm feeling, not just a 'how you going?', legitimate care in how you're going, is a massive help to moving on."
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/afl/more-ne ... 6435179155
Dempster, 28, admitted the side hadn't always been so willing to share.
"In the past we probably haven't been that good at being a whole group and everyone being confident to talk as a group," he said.
"It's come to a point where seniority doesn't matter any more. You need the younger blokes to be able to come out and tell you how they're feeling for the club to grow."
At last week's session, the players agreed that approaching a teammate could be awkward.
Captain Nick Riewoldt pondered the results-driven nature of the AFL - how if you can't fix something, you think you can't really help.
Nick Dal Santo said with such a strong team focus, individuals could sometimes be overlooked.
Dempster said the players were learning.
"It's a great program because blokes don't talk about it, you don't talk about your feelings, about mental health and stuff like that," he said.
"We do spend a lot of time together, so to be able to first notice the changes in someone and learn the skills how to handle that is pretty beneficial.
"You can see subtle signs if you look hard enough and do show that genuine care.
"I suppose that's what the program's about, being able to see those subtle changes and having the confidence to be able to go up to them and genuinely ask, 'How you feeling? How you going?', and help them out."
Dempster said it took courage.
"Sometimes it can be a bit confronting ... because you know that it's going to be hard for someone to come up to you, you don't want to do it to someone else and make them feel uncomfortable," he said.
"Hopefully this program enables us to individually be able to come out and say, 'Maybe I do have a problem', and also be able to see that someone else is struggling and be able to help them out."
The players talk about the effect of being dropped from the senior team.
Dempster spoke from experience when he said it was a lonely place.
"You feel like you've been left behind a little bit. So to be able to go up to a player post being dropped and see how they're going can make a massive difference," he said.
"I've been dropped plenty of times. For a player to come up to me and ask how I'm feeling, not just a 'how you going?', legitimate care in how you're going, is a massive help to moving on."
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Lyon probably caused a lot of mental health issues in some of our players by using the bubble strategy unfortunately.
I hope on reflection he regrets his actions.
I hope on reflection he regrets his actions.
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
I'm not sure regret is in his naturesaintspremiers wrote:Lyon probably caused a lot of mental health issues in some of our players by using the bubble strategy unfortunately.
I hope on reflection he regrets his actions.
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
That is complete rubbish. The 'bubble' was to everyone on the outside.saintspremiers wrote:Lyon probably caused a lot of mental health issues in some of our players by using the bubble strategy unfortunately.
I hope on reflection he regrets his actions.
The article and the program gives specific reference to the players being more open with each other.
If your mental health is in good shape then you will feel better and probably play better football.
Good work I say.
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
It's nice the clubs starting to embrace mental health....... But what about the mental health of their supporters?
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
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Teflon wrote:It's nice the clubs starting to embrace mental health....... But what about the mental health of their supporters?
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
And...Hawthorn embraces "Anger Management" week.
Carlton embraces a bucket of KFC chicken wings.
Richmond throws their arms around any fans who haven't burnt their memberships.
Andy Demetriou embraces Eddie Maguire...
Paul Roos embraces his statue at the SCG (until someone threw a bucket of cold water over them and said "Get a room FFS !)
and on it goes...
Carlton embraces a bucket of KFC chicken wings.
Richmond throws their arms around any fans who haven't burnt their memberships.
Andy Demetriou embraces Eddie Maguire...
Paul Roos embraces his statue at the SCG (until someone threw a bucket of cold water over them and said "Get a room FFS !)
and on it goes...
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Pffftt,
Mental health is over-rated. I get along just fine and I've never had mental health........................neither has he.........
Mental health is over-rated. I get along just fine and I've never had mental health........................neither has he.........
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It's all about embracing the journey.WellardSaint wrote:And...Hawthorn embraces "Anger Management" week.
Carlton embraces a bucket of KFC chicken wings.
Richmond throws their arms around any fans who haven't burnt their memberships.
Andy Demetriou embraces Eddie Maguire...
Paul Roos embraces his statue at the SCG (until someone threw a bucket of cold water over them and said "Get a room FFS !)
and on it goes...
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Typical !
the club has had more than its fair share of people who need some form of help .
They should have started 10 years ago , then maybe none of us would have any issues !
the club has had more than its fair share of people who need some form of help .
They should have started 10 years ago , then maybe none of us would have any issues !
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Strange but I feel I know that person..Dr Spaceman wrote:Teflon wrote:It's nice the clubs starting to embrace mental health....... But what about the mental health of their supporters?
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
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Teflon wrote:Strange but I feel I know that person..Dr Spaceman wrote:Teflon wrote:It's nice the clubs starting to embrace mental health....... But what about the mental health of their supporters?
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
"G'day Teffers old buddy, old mate"
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I think it is a great idea but I do think a special annexe should be created for us supporters, God knows there have been times......
Just after the 2009 Grand Final loss, our department held a "Beyond Blue in the Workplace" session and at one stage I looked around the room and out of about 20 particpants, I counted at least 14 other Saints supporters.
And on pointing this fact out to the group, they all did the denial thing about how much the loss had may have affected them and how to recognise "beyond blue" symptoms amongst workmates.
"Hi, I'm (insert name here) and I barrack for the Saints.................
Just after the 2009 Grand Final loss, our department held a "Beyond Blue in the Workplace" session and at one stage I looked around the room and out of about 20 particpants, I counted at least 14 other Saints supporters.
And on pointing this fact out to the group, they all did the denial thing about how much the loss had may have affected them and how to recognise "beyond blue" symptoms amongst workmates.
"Hi, I'm (insert name here) and I barrack for the Saints.................
Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Teflon wrote:Strange but I feel I know that person..Dr Spaceman wrote:Teflon wrote:It's nice the clubs starting to embrace mental health....... But what about the mental health of their supporters?
This clubs single handedly done my head in to the point now where I read posts from Plugger66 and converse with the likes of SaintPav!! (hardly healthy for anyone's brain cells!)
If the club wants to check supporter mental health..... I suggest they log in here round the midnight shift where the real loons come out...
"G'day Teffers old buddy, old mate"
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markp wrote:Teflon wrote:Strange but I feel I know that person..Dr Spaceman wrote:
"G'day Teffers old buddy, old mate"
that was my thought to ;;;;;;;
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That's really great to hear, very proud of the club when I read that
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
Doing there bit for young females body image too.... Confidence building stuff....
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Re: St Kilda embraces mental health
"THEIR" while we are correcting other's spelling!BigMart wrote:Doing there bit for young females body image too.... Confidence building stuff....
Riewoldt and Goddard to live up to their reputations ,Clarke and Ray to defy theirs in 2012!
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So you have proof that one of our blokes made the comment?BigMart wrote:Doing there bit for young females body image too.... Confidence building stuff....
Strangely the "victim" doesn't appear to have any.